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Selin Deveci Balci

You deserve to take up space

Published 5 months ago • 1 min read

SELIN DEVECI BALCI

COACH & ARTIST

For centuries, women have been taught to shrink.​
Not just in what we say—but in how we live.

We make ourselves smaller in our style. Safer in our homes. More practical than joyful in how we spend our time.

We edit. We tone down. We choose what feels acceptable.

And after a while, it stops feeling like a choice. But self-expression isn’t just about what you wear. It’s how you show up in your life. It’s the colors you allow yourself to live in. The spaces you create around you. The way you give yourself permission to enjoy your time—fully. It’s how you process what you feel instead of suppressing it. How you connect without filtering who you are. How you grow into someone who no longer asks for permission.

And eventually—it’s how you stop fearing being seen.

Because the moment you stop shrinking…you start expanding everywhere.

In your style.
In your space.
In your life.

You deserve to take up space.​
Not just in a room—but in the way you live.

I made a free training on exactly this—why we dress to disappear, what it's really costing us, and how to start getting dressed like the woman you actually are.

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